Device tree : how to get uart characteristics from DTS?

I'm struggling with SDKConnect and the device tree stuff... and finding it hard to get good examples or docs TBH

So, I have the sample dts files for the nRF5340DK, which defines the config for the 'uart0' node:

&uart0 {
    status = "okay";
    current-speed = <115200>;
    pinctrl-0 = <&uart0_default>;
    pinctrl-1 = <&uart0_sleep>;
    pinctrl-names = "default", "sleep";
};
and the pinctrl mappings:
uart0_default: uart0_default {
        group1 {
            psels = <NRF_PSEL(UART_TX, 0, 20)>,
                <NRF_PSEL(UART_RTS, 0, 19)>;
        };
        group2 {
            psels = <NRF_PSEL(UART_RX, 0, 22)>,
                <NRF_PSEL(UART_CTS, 0, 21)>;
            bias-pull-up;
        };
    };

    uart0_sleep: uart0_sleep {
        group1 {
            psels = <NRF_PSEL(UART_TX, 0, 20)>,
                <NRF_PSEL(UART_RX, 0, 22)>,
                <NRF_PSEL(UART_RTS, 0, 19)>,
                <NRF_PSEL(UART_CTS, 0, 21)>;
            low-power-enable;
        };
    };
aliases {
    console = &uart0;
}
Given this, how to I get the port/pins for my console in my C code? and switch between 'default' and 'sleep' cases easily - given they are in 2 groups for one case and 1 group for the other?
I want to use the nrfx uarte driver, not the zephyr driver, so getting the struct device (via get_device_info()) doesn't help?
I was hoping to be able to do something like:
uint8_t rxd_pin = NRFX_PSEL_UART_RX_PORT(DT_PROP(DT_PROP(DT_ALIAS(console), group1)),psel) << 4 | NRFX_PSEL_UART_RX_PIN(DT_PROP(DT_PROP(DT_ALIAS(console), group1)),
(since I saw similar code to get the pins for an I2C node... NRFX_PSEL_SDA_PORT/PIN macros)
but no such macro seems to exist for uart? I can get the 'current-speed' property ok...
Any pointers on using the pinctrl macros to get NRF_PSEL components? I will confess to being a newbie on the whole device tree config stuff...
Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place - but honestly there are SO many files to keep in mind for the dts stuff....
thanks!