I am used to nRF5 SDK through SES when using nRF52, but for this new project we use the nRF Connect SDK on an nRF5340 (and thus switched to a CMake/VSC development environment).
This project uses an LCD that requires a C/D line on SPI to differentiate command- and data bytes. I don't think the original Zephyr SPI implementation provides that feature, so we chose to use nrfx for this peripheral. Its SPIM driver however needs NRFX_SPIM_EXTENDED_ENABLED to be set. Now, I have been looking for a place to do that and I feel very, very dumb... but... where do I define that exactly? I can switch device drivers on and off in KConfig, but no configuration can be done there, right?