Using nrfutil to flash devices via BLE requires, as per `nrfutil dfu ble --help` a second device to be present, and an inordinate amount of additional dependencies which make the whole process prone to failure (cf. https://github.com/NordicSemiconductor/pc-nrfutil/issues?utf8=%E2%9C%93&q=is%3Aissue+ble-driver+install – can add my own error output, but it boils down to "lots of dependencies")
I suggest instead that firmware upload be implemented additionally by direct BLE connection from the PC. Firmware updates work from smart phones via the Thingy:52 app, so it stands to reason that any laptop's BLE stack should suffice for that task as well (given it can even be used through the browser, but https://developer.nordicsemi.com/thingy/52/environment & co lack the firmware update feature the app has).
(Filing this here as per the redirection from https://github.com/NordicSemiconductor/pc-nrfutil/issues )